If you don’t love the guy who’s courting you,
Don’t make things difficult for him.
Be honest & let him move on.
In the same way,
If you love the guy you’re dating,
Don’t make it hard for yourself.
Tell him & strike a chance at a relationship.
This is what I often tell my friends who ask me if I am for or against a long courtship period before saying ‘Yes’ and stepping into a “In A Relationship” status.
I don’t know about you,
And of course, this is simply my opinion,
But I see no point in going through all that pretenses
I mean,
Don't we all try to hide our not-so-pleasant attributes & camouflage our true colors during the courtship period?
Come on, let’s be honest,
Aren’t we all at our best behaviors,
And then we simply slide away into our normal selves when we are already in a bf-gf status?
Yes, we do.
So what’s the use of having an extensive courtship period?
It just prolongs the false pretenses & shadows the reality.
Which we don’t really need in the long run,
‘Coz if we are really, seriously, considering spending the rest of our lives with a particular person,
We would want to get to know the true person as early on as possible,
And we want to be honest, right from the very beginning.
So the lesser time we go through all that make-believe crap,
The more time we have for getting to know each other’s quirks & traits...
To finally know if we really are meant for each other.
Besides,
It’s already so damn hard to conceal our true feelings,
So why make it doubly hard by complicating matters & letting guys feel the exact opposite of what we feel
(i.e, we pretend to like them when we really don’t, just because we don’t want to hurt their feelings; or, that we don’t have a thing for them when we really do, just so that we won’t look too desperate),
And then go worrying & crying should they persist or give up at what they do.
So let’s skip through with it all and be honest.
And make things a lot more easier for ourselves, shall we?
Don’t make things difficult for him.
Be honest & let him move on.
In the same way,
If you love the guy you’re dating,
Don’t make it hard for yourself.
Tell him & strike a chance at a relationship.
This is what I often tell my friends who ask me if I am for or against a long courtship period before saying ‘Yes’ and stepping into a “In A Relationship” status.
I don’t know about you,
And of course, this is simply my opinion,
But I see no point in going through all that pretenses
I mean,
Don't we all try to hide our not-so-pleasant attributes & camouflage our true colors during the courtship period?
Come on, let’s be honest,
Aren’t we all at our best behaviors,
And then we simply slide away into our normal selves when we are already in a bf-gf status?
Yes, we do.
So what’s the use of having an extensive courtship period?
It just prolongs the false pretenses & shadows the reality.
Which we don’t really need in the long run,
‘Coz if we are really, seriously, considering spending the rest of our lives with a particular person,
We would want to get to know the true person as early on as possible,
And we want to be honest, right from the very beginning.
So the lesser time we go through all that make-believe crap,
The more time we have for getting to know each other’s quirks & traits...
To finally know if we really are meant for each other.
Besides,
It’s already so damn hard to conceal our true feelings,
So why make it doubly hard by complicating matters & letting guys feel the exact opposite of what we feel
(i.e, we pretend to like them when we really don’t, just because we don’t want to hurt their feelings; or, that we don’t have a thing for them when we really do, just so that we won’t look too desperate),
And then go worrying & crying should they persist or give up at what they do.
So let’s skip through with it all and be honest.
And make things a lot more easier for ourselves, shall we?
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